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How to Have Massive Success in Adult Dating and Fulfill
your Wildest Fantasies (and Stay Safe)
Follow These Essential Tips to Ensure You Get the Best out of Your
Fulfilling your wildest fantasies, fetishes and sexual desires has become easier
than ever since the invention of
online. It has become explosively popular over the past few years resulting in
millions of members world wide. You can find an adult site that caters for
almost every country of the world from Albania to China and even Gabon! There is
a huge online community of people out there who you are free to share and
explore your wildest fantasies with.
You can browse through adult photo galleries of men and women who are genuinely
looking to fulfill their sensual desires with other consenting adults.
Everything from Straight sex, gay sex, threesomes, swingers parties, fetishes, a
naughty chat online and just about everything else you can think of (and some
things youíve never heard of!).
Just looking through these sites is very steamy and lots of fun. The sites are
very user friendly and itís free to browse. Many of the sites have lots of fun
extra features like video chat rooms with sizzling video clips, 24hr live
webcams and details of hot adult and swingers parties and events in your area.
Getting Started in Adult Dating
So where do you start out in the
scene? Well there are many
websites that have free trials with no credit card or payment required to
Once youíve found the site that interests you most, take advantage of the free
trial and get your profile up to start having fun. Itís that simple! With many
sites, before you can contact other members you will usually have to pay
something but that is where the fun begins!
Essential Tips for Success on Adult Dating Sites
Before you decide to jump into the world of
Adult Dating, you should have a
healthy self-image and a sense of self-liberation and confidence. The
sites contain plenty of mature material, pictures and contents for individuals
seeking sexual encounters of all kind so be prepared!
You must start off knowing what you want. You have to know what youíre
comfortable with and what you are not right from the outset. Do you just want a
simple discreet encounter? Do you want a swingerís party? Is it a specific kind
of encounter that you want? Are you curious about it all? Be clear in your own
head what you want and donít let other people persuade you into anything youíre
not comfortable with. Stick to your guns and youíll have a great time.
Create a unique and descriptive username
Many people skip through this bit giving it no importance at all but your
user-name is the first hint at what kind of person you are and what kind of
encounter you want have. It needs to be original, memorable, and fun. It doesnít
have to always be sexual but then again there is nothing wrong with a little
tease. Be positive and go ahead and flatter yourself and see if you can
incorporate in your username something about your great qualities.
Write a compelling headline
Along with your picture and your username, this is what people view when
sites and itís your most powerful chance to entice a person and get them to open
your full profile and find out more about you. Your headline should compel
people to read on and find out more. Donít be shy about being there and write -
ďIím new to this sort of thingĒ - and donít write boring or uninteresting
information like ďMy nameís Jan, Iím 40 and am looking for fun in SydneyĒ This
isnít enticing. Itís boring and will most likely be overlooked. This headline is
your sales pitch to get them to open your profile so make it intriguing if you
Remember Ė The purpose of the headline just to tempt people to read more.
That is its only purpose. Some good ones I have seen are ďOpen my profile and
find out why my the last people I had a threesome with keep calling me back for more ĒAnd my other favoriteÖ.ď Find out the five reasons why youíll want to play
doctors and nurses with me!Ē Do you get the picture? They both make you
intrigued to read on and find out what this person is all about. Another great
thing to do is to browse through these websites and check out what other people
are writing for their headlines. This will give you some ideas of what works and
Creating your description of yourself
You really have to approach writing this as if you were writing a resume or a
marketing piece. Itís a sales pitch to a person who can fulfill your wildest
fantasies. Great ads are the ones that grab eyeballs and push people into
action. A great advertisement should be a like a personalized enticing
invitation asking others to get in touch right away. Stand out by being creative
in your personal profile. Instead of doing the regular age and vital stats
thingy, use personalized exiting copy telling people why they should want to
engage with you. Donít be afraid to tell all the great things about you. Youíre
aloud to flatter yourself. Confidence is one of the sexiest traits you can
portray in your writing. That being said, keep the next point in mindÖ
Make sure you resist the urge to embellish the truth too much when writing your
online profile. Donít try to entice somebody by lying about how you look or what
kinds of things youíre into. It will only come back to bite you on the bum later
(possibly literally!) Just keep it real. The last thing you want is to have to
worry about all the fibs you told when youíre on the Ďdatesí youíve scored. This
is a trap many people fall into. Donít let it happen to you.
You Get Out What You Put in Like anything in life, you will get much more out of
if you put a bit of effort into it. Remember that online Ďdatingí is
designed to help get what you are looking for but without your input it would be
like sitting in the toilets at a party! Send out lots of emails, chat to lots of
people. You donít have to just pick one and wait to see what eventuates. Respond
quickly to other peoples emails and you will get better results.
Playing it Safe Ė Tips for Staying Safe when Adult Dating
Keep Your Personal Details Private
It is important that you remain anonymous in your early online communications
with a person. Donít give out your real email address, last name, phone number,
address or place of work during your correspondence. If a person places pressure
on you to give this information do not give it out. If they are persistent or
pesky stop all communications with them. Itís best not to give out this
information at all unless you have met with them (preferably more than once) and
are satisfied that it is safe to do so.
If possible check with your ISP and check that your online profile does not give
out more personal information than you are comfortable with.
You can keep your email address anonymous with email redirection services like
Bigfoot or you can also just sign up for a separate email account to your main
one and just use that exclusively for
and other things you wish to remain anonymous for (obviously donít use you real
name in the email address). Also be careful that any email signatures that you
have do not give out personal details like your place of work, phone number,
address or full name.
Trust your Intuition
99% of people on line have the best of intentions but in order to keep that
lousy 1% at bay make sure you follow these tips. If your online correspondent
doesn't answer questions directly, lies, deliberately misleads you or just gives
off a bad vibe, trust your better instincts and get rid of them fast. Better to
find someone you can feel comfortable with
Meeting in Person
Don't allow yourself to be pressured into meeting a person before you ready.
Make sure you do not agree to anything before you meet them in person. The first
meeting should be like a bit like a date in that you still have room to make
your mind up on whether youíd like to go ahead with any adult activity with the
person your meeting.
Make sure you meet in a public place the first time and if you like you can even
organize for your friend to be nearby to keep an eye on you. Your online buddy
will understand and accommodate your wishes if they are honest about their
intentions towards you. If during the date, you decide to go somewhere else, use
your own transport and try to stay in public places until you feel you know the
person well enough. Going to your own home or theirs is not ideal. If youíd like
to go somewhere more private it is best to go to a hotel (and ideally one that
you make the reservation for)
Itís important to let a friend know where you are going, with whom, and arrange
to call them after your date. If you travel to meet your on-line friend, make
your own hotel and car reservations and don't give out private information about
yourself while on your date (place of work, phone numbers etc). Get your own
transport to and from the date even if youíre offered a lift.
Getting out of Trouble
If you start feeling uncomfortable about your date, politely from excuse
yourself from the situation. Excuse yourself and leave by the back door if
necessary. Do not hesitate to ask for help from persons nearby, call your
family, friends or the police if you feel the situation warrants. Trust your
judgment and don't be afraid of potential embarrassment. Better to be
embarrassed than physically hurt or intimidated.
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